Letting Kids Be Kids: The Magic Of Playful Photos
Some of the most meaningful images from any family session are the ones where children are completely themselves, laughing, running, splashing, and exploring. The beach is an especially wonderful place for this kind of natural play. The more freedom we give your kids, the more genuine and joyful your photos will feel.
Before your session, you can let your children know that this isn’t a “stand still and say cheese” kind of photo shoot. Instead, tell them we’re going to the beach to play. We’ll have time for a few gently guided family portraits where everyone is together, but I’ll also encourage moments where the kids run along the shore, jump over little waves, or collect seashells.
If someone gets sandy or splashes their toes in the water, that’s okay - those are the real, unscripted moments you’ll want to remember. A slightly wet hem or a sandy knee is often a sign that your session was full of laughter and connection. That’s the heart of what New York Family Photography is all about: capturing your family as you truly are, in this season of life.
Practical Tips For A Relaxed Beach Session
A little planning can make your beach family photos feel smooth and enjoyable from start to finish. If we’re meeting in Montauk, Southampton, East Hampton, Bridgehampton, or any other Hamptons beach, consider arriving a few minutes early so you don’t feel rushed or stressed. This also gives little ones time to warm up to the environment.
Bring a small bag with a few essentials: water, light snacks for the kids, a towel, and maybe a backup outfit for younger children in case they get very wet or sandy early on. Choose shoes that are easy to slip off - most of the time, you’ll be barefoot, which looks natural and feels comfortable.
Try to schedule around nap times when possible, and keep the day of your session relatively calm. If your children arrive well-rested and not overstimulated, they’ll have an easier time enjoying the experience. But remember, even if someone is a little shy or having a moment, that’s completely normal. We’ll take our time, follow the kids’ lead when needed, and allow space for breaks.
The most important thing you can bring is a relaxed, open attitude. Children pick up on your energy. If you’re calm and willing to go with the flow, they’ll feel safer and more at ease. My goal as your NYC Family Photographer is not just to deliver beautiful images, but to create an experience that feels easy, fun, and stress-free for your whole family.
Whether we’re on the shores of Montauk, strolling a quiet stretch of sand in Southampton or East Hampton, or meeting closer to the city as part of your New York Family Photography experience, my hope is that your session feels less like a photoshoot and more like a special day together. With a little preparation and a lot of heart, your beach family photos will become timeless memories you’ll return to again and again.
Location Tips for Sessions in The Hamptons
I always encourage my families to choose locations that are meaningful to them as a family. This could be your favorite beach in Sag Harbor, Southampton, or Montauk. Here are some of my favorite locations for beach family photos in The Hamptons, NY.
Main Beach - Easthampton, NY
Sagg Main Beach - Bridgehampton, NY
Kirk Beach - Montauk, NY
Ditch Plains - Montauk, NY
Cooper’s Beach, Southampton, NY
Long Beach - Sag Harbor, NY
Long Wharf - Sag Harbor, NY
Atlantic Beach - Amagansett, NY
Beach permits might be necessary to visit the beach of your choice which depends on when you want to schedule your session. I always recommend checking each local town’s beach pass guidelines so that you can avoid getting a parking ticket or being turned away at the entrance.